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*sheer and I asked a question (she provides more details here). I've given some thought so here's my answer:

First, let me say that I know what kind of qualities I look for in a guy. It is quite a unique (ie weird, eccentric, fairy-tale, non-existent-in-this-era) set of qualities. Also, as I have discovered recently, I fancy men who are opposites, yet complementary with my interests and behavior.

And therefore, assuming that all men in the room are single and suits my physical desires (*ahem), and also assuming that I am the embodiment of their vision of a perfect girl (*ahem, ahem) and will therefore be clamoring and trying their best to impress me with great answers, I would ask:

I am rather superstitious. Actually, I would go as far as to run past a black cat's path as I actually believe that by switching laws of superstition, I can bring myself good luck. Tell me, are you superstitious?

His answer: (I'm crazy about you but...) I am not superstitious.

The desired reply would be one that finds my quirk endearing and that he would be very inquisitive to pick my brain about the superstition.

However, he would confess to be not superstitious, and proceed to tell me in many ways how, eg, walking under a ladder or breaking a mirror does not affect him. Nonetheless, he is respectful and loves how I think. =) This part is crucial, as I can not imagine a stable relationship with two times the quirkiness.

In any case, he would be eager to help me Feng Shui my apartment and help me balance auras, etc.

Needless to say, *Gallant is exactly like that. We've had opposite opinions on many things, namely superstition, idealism/realism, wars, Peter Singer, aromatheraphy and the Japanese visiting war shrines. The yin and yang, basically.

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Oh yes... and*Gallant's coming back tonight!